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Sometimes I’m thinking I should bring a camera with me when certain things happen, but with this whole conserving the privacy of others I just can’t videotape what I see but I can certainly talk about it. What is this world coming to in 2011?

But check out this video, sometimes I think men do think this way..lol.

Earlier this week one of my many Facebook debates was about “women being attached to men automatically after sex and the reasons why” one answer stayed with me the whole time. The author herself, Naima Lyn doesn’t surprise me because she is a writer herself. To the point, concise and scientifically proven she has eliminated all doubt of why women attach themselves after sex. this was her comment : 

NO IT DOES NOT. The way a man treats me makes me attached to him. I don’t care if he can fuck or not. If I am in it to use him, I will NOT get attached. HOWEVER, scientists have proven that women get their oxitocin level flowing real high after sex, and that brings out their caring nature, WHICH explains why women are MORE LIKELY to get attached then men do as MEN do NOT have high OXITOCIN/CARING nature. Also, men are animals, lack feelings, why they can hit and run as many as possible AND society allows them to do so with NO consequences whatsoever particularly to their reputation 🙂 I also agree, unless a female is highly sexual there will come a time when she will dislike having men poking and digging inside her vagina, morality aside mind you. Women receive, our womb is mother earth and after enough sex with men who could care less about us, we wake up and start protecting our womb. Also, explains why many women stay with men who treat them poorly, we don’t like too many men poking in there, knowing us so intimately…and I could go on lol”

Now I’m thinking, since the secret is out, how many women will be conscience enough to deter themselves from this trap? Remember we are not all created the same and adapt to situations very differently.

Though I still believe there are still good men out there, the majority of sex driven males will continue to treat us the same as long as we let them.

Would love to hear your comments on this.

  • thanks mamacita. I was sitting here and thinking, after awhile, most women, no matter how liberal, open-minded, sexual you are, you will reach this point where you say “is this all that men want from me, of me, my body, my sex?” and it won’t be enough. You will feel that void, the emptiness and you will start asking for more and stop giving yourself, your body so easily and either not date anyone for awhile or just give up on relationship unless/until this man has proven that he is in it for the long while. Really, how many need to come in and use you, not respecting you enough to treat you with kindness, be mindful of your feelings before you say “enough, no more, enough is enough”. It will depend on each woman, but trust and believe that we will come to that state way sooner than most men do. Most men are driven by the cum, can walk away without hurting or wanting more, can cum and go back home, to wifey, or girly or mother of child, they can but we can’t, at least not for too long. Have a blessed Sunday!!!