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HI CORHINNSHOW READERS I WANTED TO BLOG ABOUT THE SILENT TREATMENT AND HOW IT CAN AFFECT A RELATIONSHIP….
AT TIMES, WE AS HUMAN BEINGS EMOTIONALLY CLOCK OUT  AND HAVE TO FIGHT TO REDEEM WHAT WE LOST WHEN WE GIVE SOMEONE THE SILENT TREATMENT LETS ANALYZE WHAT REALLY HAPPENS WHEN WE DO THAT…..
EVERYDAY YOU CHANGE AS A PERSON WHETHER ITS GOOD OR BAD WE CHANGE… SO IMAGINE THE DAYS THAT YOU ARE SILENT YOU’RE MISSING OUT ON ANOTHER DAY TO GET TO KNOW YOUR PARTNER. ITS NATURAL TO BE ANGRY,  IT’S NATURAL TO BE FEEL PAIN ALL THESE THINGS ARE OKAY BUT IT’S WHAT YOU DO WITH IT THAT MATTERS.
IF YOU AND YOUR PARTNER ARE ARGUING THE BEST THING TO DO IS TO TALK ABOUT THE ISSUE TO RESOLVE IT AS SOON AS POSSIBLE…..HOLDING ON TO PAIN AND HURT TOWARDS EACH OTHER DOES NOT DO ANY GOOD SO YOU LEARN TO EXPRESS YOUR HURT WHEN YOU’RE HURTING IF IT’S BY YOUR PARTNER TELL HIM/HER SO THE ISSUE CANNOT HAVE CONTROL OVER YOUR RELATIONSHIP….
I PERSONALLY HAVE EXERCISED THE SILENT TREATMENT AND BELIEVE ME IT’S NOT WORTH THE HEADACHE…. BECAUSE YOU’RE STILL HURT… IF ANYTHING IT MAKES THE HURT WORSE BECAUSE YOU’RE NOT ABLE TO RELEASE IT…. THE NEXT TIME YOU AND YOUR PARTNER HAVE A DISAGREEMENT DON’T WALK AWAY TALK ABOUT IT…..THE SILENT TREATMENT TELLS YOUR PARTNER YOU’RE GIVING UP AND THEY’RE NOT WORTH THE FIGHT AND WE ALL KNOW THAT’S FAR FROM THE TRUTH BUT IF YOUR SILENT HOW WILL THEY EVER KNOW……
by Rita Cornielius member of the CCWC Women’s Club
Photography credit Andrew Millar Photographers

  • Holly M. Diaz

    wow,,,Could not have said it better myself. I have never agreed with the “Silent Treatment and Relationships”, wheather it be friends, family or your partner. I have even sometimes wished that I had the capacity within me to give someone the silent treatment..It is just something I can not do,,I am a communicator and feel all realationship grow and blossom through honest communication of eachothers feelings. You do not always have to agree, thats just not realistic.. But the freedom to express yourself to eachother always will give you understanding,,and with understanding comes patience. I believe these are three major factors in any successful relationship COMMUNICATION, UNDERSTANDING, & PATIENCE.

  • RITA CORNIELIUS

    EXACTLY LOVE….. IF YOU DO NOT COMMUNICATE THE SILENT TREATMENT WILL SEEM LIKE THE EASIEST WAY OUT……. WHEN IN ACTUALLITY IT ADDS ON TO THE ISSUES …….AND ALMOST FEELS IMPOSSIBLE TO RESOLVE ANYTHING.