Before I start I want to make sure you understand what a Catch 22 is, by definition A situation in which a desired outcome or solution is impossible to attain because of a set of inherently illogical rules or conditions (Read more: http://www.answers.com/topic/catch-22#ixzz1dDnXm1HS) In other words you are doomed if you do, and you are doomed if you don’t.
Recently I caught up with a friend of mine, of course he is married has 2 beautiful daughters and a baby on the way. Unfortunately he has a bad habit, which is cheating, I refrain myself from judging but I just had to ask him why, why is it so easy to say I will never leave my wife and yet still cheat. His response didn’t surprise me at all, it just seems like most men chose this excuse for their actions, for every man there is 2 women or more, in other words the universe didn’t agree to the fact that men were suppose to stay with one woman.
He also explained a situation that happened between him and his wife, where they get into arguments and his punishment would be the absence of sex in their relationship. He proceeded to ask me : What would you prefer, your man forcing himself on you, because he has to have sex no matter what, or would you rather he leaves the house and get it from somewhere else and still returns home to you?
For the first time I didn’t have an answer, I couldn’t chose a 3rd answer he said, I just had to chose between these 2. So I’m wondering if you were in my shoes ladies what would your answer be?